I’m a firm believer that if you look and listen, your significant other will tell you everything you need to know without saying a word. We women often ask questions when the answers have already been demonstrated.
“Do you love me?” Does he act like he loves you?
“Where are we going with this?” Does he treat you like he wants a future with you or does he act like he just wants to kick it.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t ask the question. You need to get a verbal answer to compare with the nonverbal. However, I’m a firm believer that you should trust the nonverbal one every time.
Think of it like this. If you’re talking to do you really need to ask the person across from you if they’re listening. What does their body language say? Are they looking at you? Are they nodding their head, making facial expressions or asking questions in the appropriate places? Are they leaning forward as if they are listening intently. If that person has their head buried in a book while you pour out your feelings it is highly likely that they aren’t really listening to you. Right? Treat your significant other the same way. Actions speak louder than words. Pay attention to the signs.
My Side of the Single Life is by book author Jae Henderson. Her inspirational romance novels, Someday and Someday, Too are now available on Kindle and Nook. Visit her at, www.jaehendersonauthor.com and www.imagoodwoman.com